If you need assistance finding an appropriate gift or crafting the right words, your Dignity Memorial® professionals can help. We’ve put together a list of resources to help you choose the best way to show your sympathy and support.
Ways to show sympathy
Whether you want to write a letter, share a favorite memory or simply provide a listening ear to someone who has suffered a loss, the most important thing is to be heartfelt and sincere. Sending flowers or a gift, or attending a memorial service can be other ways to show your sympathy. Ongoing support in the weeks and months following the service lets someone know you care and are there to lend assistance whenever it's needed.
What to say when someone dies
It can be hard to know what to say to someone who is grieving. It’s easy to feel like there are no words that will truly offer solace, but simply saying, “I’m here for you,” or “I’m so sorry,” can be enough. If you’re more comfortable letting actions speak for you, you can convey your condolences by attending the funeral, sending a gift or taking a meal to the family.
What to write in a sympathy card
It’s common to send a sympathy card to the family or close friends at a time of loss, but often it's hard to know exactly what to say. We have tips on what to write and what to avoid when sending a sympathy card.
Honor them with flowers
Show your support with a beautiful and lasting floral arrangement from Cemetery Flowers. Our exclusive cemetery floral placement service makes it easier than ever. You pick the arrangement and delivery schedule, and our professional staff hand-places your selection at the memorial site. You'll even receive a photo of your placed arrangement to share with friends and family.
What to wear to a funeral
Whether you’re attending a traditional religious funeral service or a contemporary celebration of life, we can help you decide what to wear.
Comforting those who grieve
Supporting a friend or loved one who is grieving is an important role. The Dignity Memorial network offers a range of helpful caregiver resources.
Writing a eulogy
Delivering a eulogy or funeral speech is an opportunity to share the things you cherished about someone, brag on their accomplishments and tell friends and family about their unique charms and funny quirks.
Religious and cultural traditions
Religious and cultural traditions in funeral services are a significant and special way to honor a loved one's legacy. Whether you are observing Catholic tradition, incorporating Hindu customs, following Jewish practices or incorporating other religious or cultural aspects important to you or your loved one, we are here to help.
Grief library
It's hard to know what to say, do or even feel when you're going through the grief process. Use our list of resources to help guide you along the way. Whether you are searching for personal ways to heal or helping loved ones deal with their grief, this is a good place to start.